Currently I am single (probably won't be able to set me up, because I am likely not in your community, and getting ready to go to Israel). This is an issue that is important to me, because I see how big a difference that shalom bayit can make in a home, and from what I have seen there are a lot of people out there who may THINK THEY HAVE SHALOM BAYIT, BUT DON'T! How do I know this, because at my congregation I see all of the women with BIG SMILES ON THEIR FACES. I know that this is one of those things everyone would like to give advice on, but I know I don't know everything and there are people who are more qualified. That is why I'm going to look at collecting a large amount of articles by proven pros in the Jewish community to help make a large amount of advice available.
Shalom is the vessel that helps a person merit all the blessings in the world. It's important and can improve your life so drastically!
The book I have heard the best results from are by Rabbi Shalom Arush for men Garden of Peace http://www.breslev.co.il/store/books/family_and_relationships/the_garden_of_peace_english.aspx?id=7269&language=english, and for women Woman's wisdom http://www.breslev.co.il/store/books/family_and_relationships/womens_wisdom_the_garden_of_peace_for_women_english.aspx?id=11942&language=english (a little secret not everyone knows there is a book by Rav Arush in Hebrew on marriage for both spouces http://www.feldheim.com/authors/arush-rabbi-shalom/gan-eden-m-kedem-hebrew-only.html)
How to use this blog.
1.Find an area that you can work on
2.Figure out ways to implement this change (will power alone doesn't always change things)
3.VERY MUCH SUGGESTED GO OVER YOUR DAY AND SEE HOW YOU DID IN THE AREA YOU DID (IF YOU DO THIS PRAYING TO HASHEM THIS IS A FORM OF CONFESSION (ADMITTING SINS)
4.If it doesn't work then repeat
5.When you improve an area with solid gains move on to another area
Good luck!
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